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Topic: It's funny when it's the Hot Babe that's all nervous and flustered!
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Master Don Juan
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posted 03-27-2002 11:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by terminator911: I don't know about this approach.1) You're giving her a compliment, she gets them all the time. 2) The attention is on her. This should be about you, even though you didn't go for the close (getting the number) the focus should be on yourself. She will expect you to pay her attention from now on.
Hey Terminator,
I used a variation of this and it worked. here is what I said: Me: Hi what's your name? Her: B-yotch Me: Hi B-yotch, I couldn't help notice you at/doing (wherever you noticed her) and I wanted to meet you. I my case, I didn't flower her with any compliments. I just stated that I saw her and wanted to meet her. Let her think what I said had more meaning to it than it is. I don't give her my name. I want her to ask me. I want to see what her interest is in me. Chat about whatever and close for the number. What you said is very true. You don't want to come off as a chump by putting her on some pedestal. Change the variables as I did and see if you get any positive results. Take Care, Legend IP: 65.69.95.209 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 04-24-2002 12:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ginspooper: I wish I could practice in school but I think its too hard, because I know alot of girls already and its one thing if you get a name then give a compliment but another if you already know her name and just go give a compliment. Also the way my schedule works if I was to practice the girls I;m actually going for would see and that just wouldnt help(right?)Any ideas?
i am not too far removed form the days of hight school so i can tell you that you are absoultly right. don't even waste your time. it's not because you are a loser or anything and it's not that every hs girl is immature or what not but these aren't people you just met. You've known them for a while. plus alot of them are immature. I am a pretty attractive person, but I was considered "odd" in high school, because I was "different". I was just more mature than everyone else, in other words, i didn't enjoy doing the childish things that alot of people my age did. alotugh i was a AFC, i wasn't really scared to talk to girls than, I really just didnt' want to. I can honesly say that once you are old enough to hit the club secne, BOY does your outlook on WOMEN change, you won't want a girl, you won't a WOMEN.
------------------ "you have to swing the bat to hit a homerun, Babe Ruth led the league in home runs, but he also led the league in strikeouts as well" IP: 65.64.3.13 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 04-24-2002 01:03 PM
Don the Legend Very nice indeed. Good approach, I'll have to try it myself.IP: 172.155.92.23 |
Don Juan
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posted 05-25-2002 05:33 PM
Nomoreniceguy, you are seriously mistaken.There are basically two types of single women: the shy ones and the confident ones. Most often the confident ones will look an 8 to 10, will be very selfish and egoist and will look down on you. You can compliment these women, but they will still laught at you. They have far too much confidence and instead of boosting it, you have to leave them there wondering with there ego cut down a bit. On these girls you will have to use a cocky and funny approach. There is this guy with the book "double your dating" and his funny/cocky approach and he is totally right. You should check his newsletter out, it has changed my view on many things I used to think about women before. Mainly, the other type of women is shy and they are lack of confidence. A little compliment will boost their ego a bit, and open their heart for you to go. Most of these girls have little confidence because of their bad looks, but as always there are exceptions to this rule just as in your case with "Tanya". What about high school? I'm just graduating at high school and I've had some good/bad experiences with younger girls. The main things is that these girls at the age of 16 are often very immature but have completely developped bodies. Some of them look very good and their ego is somewhere up in the skies. Just as it is with older women. But these girls are much more unpredictable. 16 to 18 is the worst age because they realize that they look good, but they still remain very childish in their behaviour... So, never ask out a good looking high school student girl with nomoreniceguy's approach. Use another tactic instead, like the cocky/funny one. The name says it all. Nomoreniceguy, you said that you asked this girl at the age of 17 out and you were really successful with her. I have to tell that I'm not suprised on this: most of the girls near the age of 18 are looking for older men, some of them for financial stability and similar reasons, or some of them are frustrated by their wrong relationship with their father and try to compensate it by going out with older men. It's that easy. I'm looking forward for your reactions/opinions. Have a nice day! 
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Don Juan
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posted 05-28-2002 01:44 PM
NoMoreNiceGuy,I undertand your approach, but considering that the girl you originally hit on was HOT, why did you put her on a pedastal rather than neg-hit her (as other guys in this site may recommend)? If she is HOT, she probably here's that she is beautiful from lots of guys, that's when the neg-hit can help. Also, I read alot in this site about being a challange to a woman, and by saying right away to a woman "you are beautiful" it seems to me that you are not coming across as a challange to her. Any other thoughts on this? ------------------ We've all heard the saying, "Knowledge is Power." Many people think that information is power, too. It's not. Information is nothing but information. Information can become power, but only when it is applied. -Brooks Kubic IP: 205.188.197.162 |
Don Juan
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posted 05-28-2002 05:00 PM
None of that "I saw you and I'd like to meet you" crap. That's lame as hell.Walk up to her, observe your surroundings then light her up with some comedy. Like this: "So, have you spotted any hot guys yet?". "I saw a few over that way(point somewhere)". "What's the deal with guys and sleeve-less shirts?" "Do you think I'd be much cooler if I had a cowboy hat?" If you can't find anything funny to say, I normally open with this.
"So, are you having a good time tonight or what?". "You from around here?" (Then say funny sh*t about where she's from). "So do you work there or go to school?" ......... Then the convo goes on from there. Remember to keep it short and leave while you're ahead. IP: 24.69.255.205 | |