posted 11-12-2001 07:20 PM
The best way I've ever been able to describe confidence is being "in control" in every situation. Technically, in the center of your brain is where your emotions and hormones are triggered. These feelings will fire at will. The emotions connect to your frontal lobe, which then decides what to do about them.
The trick is not to respond to the emotions. Maybe you want to laugh your arse off at a particular moment, but you just give a wide smile. Maybe you could be really pissed about something, but you realize anger gets you nowhere, so you shrug it off and find a solution. Maybe you want to pout and complain, but you suck it up, and find a way to make the best of things.
It's the battle of logic over emotions. Do what IS right over what you FEEL is right. Following your logic is going to be the right choice 5000% of the time. It will also make you stand out. I'm sure we all know a guy who can't be rattled by anything. He takes it all in stride.
Women are searching for a masculine figure. It is feminine to operate on emotions. The extreme focus and confidence in any situation sets you apart. You are always in control of yourself, and others notice that. It is an incredible skill to attain, and is what sets the DJs apart from the chumps. You must be the winner of logic vs emotion. Control your mind, and control your life.
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"That girl looks so good... NEXT!"
~Gangstarr