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Jack

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posted 09-13-2000 06:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jack     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a little trick I tried. Well we all heard the say hi to all the girls/women you see thing. But if you super shy like I use to be, that trick was a big leap forward, maybe even to big a leap. So I came up with something that you can do before the "hi" thing. Try making eye contact with every girl you see. Hold it just a second longer than normally. What this exercise does is to help get you used to making eye contact. Being a shy person, you're not really use to that so it kinda takes you out of your comfort zone but not to far out. Sometimes a girl/women may even say hi to you first if you look at her.


P.S. If a women is a long distance from you, don't try this exercise yet. Wait till she gets within 5-7ft.

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Crazyman

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posted 09-14-2000 02:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Crazyman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Iknow what you are saying.
I think i am beyond super shy though as i have trouble even making eye contact. i have been working on this for the last few weeks and am making progress.
Something additional count every contact as a victory. Small victories will lead to bigger ones.

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