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DarkDream

Master Don Juan
posted 01-15-2002 02:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DarkDream     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by PortugueseMeatball:
DarkDream,

First of all, I want to thank you. For the last week or so I've been really bummed, I don't know why. You REALLY uplifted my spirit. And I will SURELY use this post if I ever face a loss of vital energy!

This was genuinely a herculean task, writing this post!!! Great job! I've only read about 25% of it and I totally agree with you.

I've acquired this way of thinking about what each sex seeks on the other after reading a chapter from the book "The Selfish Gene" by R. Dawkins (forgot the first name...). He discusses that each sex uses criteria to select a sexual partner based on external appearances. The final product is selecting a partner that maximizes the chances of survival of the offspring. A strong, healthy individual denounces that he has a strong immune system, and it is most likely to pass it on to the children, whereas a weak and ill individual may pass that illness to the offspring. This results in lost time -- the other partner could've used that time to help giving birth to the offspring from a healtier individual! This is a very biological-oriented view, but you may try to find a relation within the human species -- which you argumented reasonably, at least I haven't found any objections so far to your reasoning!

I'm to blame for not having post on this subject already! I've tried to write a small post about this, which became an essay, and it got so big, which sections, and subsections and... oh damn, I simply gave up because I felt it would became so heavy that nobody would read it. Fortunately, you proved me wrong by showing that it can be elaborated in an interesting fashion. Great job!

TCOY, DarkDream

[This message has been edited by PortugueseMeatball (edited 01-14-2002).]


I've read a lot of Richard Dawkins books, am a great fan of Desmond Morris, and Edward O. Wilson (his book "On Human Virtue" I found fascinating). I have big science background and have found evolutionary psychology invaluable in understanding human beings.

Meatball, go ahead and read the rest of my post: the heart and real crux of it comes later.

--DD

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PortugueseMeatball

Master Don Juan
posted 01-15-2002 03:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PortugueseMeatball     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Pedro F. Marcos:

Temos que as castigar!!


Nah... eu gosto de as fazer SUPLICAR para que eu as castigue!

IP: 194.117.40.98

PortugueseMeatball

Master Don Juan
posted 01-15-2002 03:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PortugueseMeatball     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by DarkDream:
I've read a lot of Richard Dawkins books, am a great fan of Desmond Morris, and Edward O. Wilson (his book "On Human Virtue" I found fascinating). I have big science background and have found evolutionary psychology invaluable in understanding human beings.

Meatball, go ahead and read the rest of my post: the heart and real crux of it comes later.

--DD



Hi DD,

I've read the remaining of your post. It's A+ as I expected from the few I've read before, and I'm glad!

What is really good about your post, I think, is that you didn't merely presented the hunter-gatherer possible mentality, but actually transposed it to the DJ behavior. Very well done!

Although I only skimmed Dawkins' book I found it interesting (mental note: fetch it again).
As for backgrounds, what's yours? Mine is considerably far from biology or psychology; I've graduated in physics, but I've allways found these subjects very interesting nevertheless... Living, breathing, thinking, walking things are certainly more interesting to watch than high-energy phenomena! It never ceases to amaze me...

TCOY

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Pedro

Master Don Juan
posted 01-15-2002 04:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pedro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Meatball, Pedro F. Marcos e outros Portugueses:

e se fôssemos mas é BEBER ? hihihhi

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raven_82

Master Don Juan
posted 01-15-2002 07:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for raven_82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tony Robbins would be proud.

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Nannu

Don Juan
posted 01-15-2002 10:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nannu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you very much DarkStar. I am truly inspired. I hope you continue to post writing of this caliber in the future.

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IntermediateDonJuaner

Master Don Juan
posted 01-16-2002 06:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for IntermediateDonJuaner     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh My-God!

This is really a f#cking good post!!!!

It must be given credits for it!

IDJ standing up clapping his hands to acknowlegde the good work!

IP: 61.6.132.222

RookieDJ

Don Juan
posted 01-16-2002 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RookieDJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
this is a very sexy posts, one of the best i have read here.


I agreee completely. The AFC falls victim to his surroundings (the girls reactions) and fails to act with patience, while the
DJ/Master Hunter creates his own destiny, decides the enviorment which he wants to live in,acts with patience never stressing, and ultimately has success with females.


Currently id say that i am in the middle of these two, but i now know what it truly takes to be what i want to be ---- a hunter. Thank you for this post it has the ability to be life changing for many people.

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DarkDream

Master Don Juan
posted 01-21-2002 03:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DarkDream     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm bumping this baby.

--DD

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KiInCollege

Don Juan
posted 01-21-2002 05:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KiInCollege     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Very abstract ideas with the big picture in mind. These well-executed qualities are what separates this post from a typical tip post. Extremely entertaining and informative.

Definite DJ Bible material. I especially like the AFC vs. DJ Hunter part; if you decide to revise this work, consider putting it earlier to keep readers hooked and entertained. Readers owe it to themselves to stay motivated and read the entire work.

IP: 24.25.68.203

Odysseus

Master Don Juan
posted 01-21-2002 10:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odysseus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
good job, i see you're point, and evolutionary logic has helped me too. It has been said before, and I agree.

But I think the post you made on the legend of bagger vance was more worth it. this is older stuff whereas that post was gold.

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Don the Legend

Master Don Juan
posted 01-25-2002 02:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Don the Legend     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nice Job DD!!!

After a recomendation from WildThang and Taz, I looked for this post to help me get through a breakup. Boy did it hit the mark.

"How is this emotion serving me?", "Is this fear justified/warranted?" is very profund and to the point.

This was very well said with great examples.

I look forward to reading your future tips and advice on things.

Thanks,

Legend

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"As you walk down the fairway of life you must smell the roses, for you only get to play one round."... Ben Hogan

"The key to happiness in your life is "Your Life",... Don the Legend

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KinoOI

Master Don Juan
posted 01-25-2002 02:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KinoOI     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Truly a work of art.

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KinoOI - Anthony
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The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible ~or~ Tony’s How to Lay Girls Guide

”We all will die, but only one of us will die a hero.”

"Just like that... bada-fvckin-bing, bada-fvckin-boom... capiche?"

[This message has been edited by KinoOI (edited 01-25-2002).]

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whatsupwiddat

Master Don Juan
posted 01-25-2002 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for whatsupwiddat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Kino sent me this link......
I HAVE SEEN THE LIGHT.... AND IT IS GOOD....
Excellent. This is the all anyone needs to know...
Good job! i wonder how long it took you to make it?

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Whatsupwiddat - Master Don Juan
AIM: HangTen3000

"THE WORLD IS YOUR OYSTER" - Adam Carolla

"Just Bring It!"

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Han Solo

Don Juan
posted 01-28-2002 06:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Han Solo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump

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Keymaster of Goza

Master Don Juan
posted 02-01-2002 09:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Keymaster of Goza     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Good post Dark Dream. Well written.

I especially like the analogy of the hunter who decides the to cease chasing the prey through difficult terrain but is satisfied by gaining better knowledge of the terrain covered thereby making a more efficient hunter for next time.

Life experience cannot be bought.

IP: 144.138.215.139

whatsupwiddat

Master Don Juan
posted 02-24-2002 03:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for whatsupwiddat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BUMP!

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Whatsupwiddat - Master Don Juan
AIM: HangTen3000

"In Tenebris Lux" - From Darkness, Light

"Just Bring It!"

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Pook

Master Don Juan
posted 02-25-2002 01:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pook     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good piece, DarkDream. The beauty of it is that you focused on what is going on inside the head of a MAN instead of a WOMAN.

Though, I think sexuality is too big for evolution to handle. Why would a woman pass up the guy inventing the airplane to go for the guy who is boldly hopping around the hillside? Why is genius and all its varieties totally ignored by women? Why do women respond to decadent acts? Evolution doesn't really have an answer.

The HOW TOs of getting women and being successful with women are now generally known. What I've been curious about these past few months is not the HOW but the WHY. WHY do women act like they do? What dark secret of nature compels them too? The answer is so... black that I wish I never knew. And I thought the paradigm-shift from the AFC fairyland was shattering.

Best of luck and keep posting!

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Pook
Anti-Dump, Big Don, ATNA, Adonis, Allen Thompson, and others- thanks a million.

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~The_Chosen~

Master Don Juan
posted 02-28-2002 09:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ~The_Chosen~     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That was a GREAT post. I like the long posts, you find out they are worth every single second reading.

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~The_Chosen~ has spoken...

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is just not an act but a habit." - Aristotle

Judge a man by his questions and not his answers.

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Aztec

Master Don Juan
posted 03-13-2002 12:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aztec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bump

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De La Soul

Master Don Juan
posted 04-01-2002 06:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for De La Soul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HOLY S H I T.

DarkDream, I just want to thank you. This was the article that made me stop about a month or two ago and say to myself "SH1T. I can do this Don Juan stuff I just need to get out there and put these principles into practice.

Before reading this article I was a lurker on this site, scanning the Quick Tips from time to time (this went on for about a year), but taking no active part in the forums or really making an effort with my Don Juaning.

This article changed all that.

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aznbreakerjrey

Master Don Juan
posted 04-01-2002 07:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aznbreakerjrey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks DarkDream. I was entering a phase of self-doubt and a feeling of emotional downess, and I realized now that it was because I was living my life being judged by the opinions of others. I've gotta live MY life, not what other people think my life should be. I've gotta strive for self-improvement, not for others and to look good, but for the most important person in my life: myself. Thanks again

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"You live, you learn?" No, it is only if you learn the ways of the DJ when you can truly live...
AIM - aznbreakerjrey
Weblog - www.jrey.blogspot.com

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whatsupwiddat

Master Don Juan
posted 05-08-2002 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for whatsupwiddat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
good forever. forever. forever.

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Whatsupwiddat - Master Don Juan
AIM: HangTen3000

"Only if you believe"

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gotnone

Master Don Juan
posted 05-08-2002 09:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for gotnone     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nice... very inspiring...
Bump.

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Bonhomme

Master Don Juan
posted 05-22-2002 12:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bonhomme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Direct hit!

This post kicks so much ass I'm at a loss for words!

BUMP!

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