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Topic: Womanese!
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Master Don Juan
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posted 03-06-2002 02:54 AM
Funny stuff. I posted a joke email one that I got one day, before I read this one: ../../../ubb/Forum5/HTML/001369.html - just some extra content to these pook-isms  IP: 203.51.27.24 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 03-10-2002 03:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by IntermediateDonJuaner: Actually, I do not know what caused them to see me in that way . Is it because I acted like an AFC or something that I did make them put me into the loser category?I just can't believe that after all these while of DJing, I get a line like that! Of course, maybe these are bad girls that like jerks but I noticed the good ones don't say that. So,maybe I should be going after the good ones,but that's not my intention. I want a variety of women not only one type. And Wyldfire, thanks for your compliment. It hurts very badly. I guess you've successfully do that! So Pook, what advice can you give me this time? Why is it that I get such a line like "You're a decent guy!" ARGH.........!!!!!
You are worrying too much over nothing. I've had older women, discovering my youthful age, say, "Oh, you're just a baby!" You may have very well been 'neg hit'. Girls do it more than guys. Just laugh it off. Reply, "ME!? No, you are the Nice Girl. Way too nice for me," and laugh. I agree with Wyldfire in that the comment had nothing to do with DJing or AFCishness. I bet it was your appearance that set her off. You're probably more clean and have a purity of face that isn't usually seen. This isn't bad but good since it makes you stand out; your face lacks the tough hardness that plagues other faces. It may seem strange that one of such pureness would be doing DJ stuff (and probably why she said it). OR it could be because you aren't like the other guys and making sexual innuendos anywhere and everywhere. This could make you seem 'decent' and 'innocent'. You haven't said a context in which it was said so it is hard to say. The LAST thing a girl wants is an INNOCENT guy for in a girl's mind, innocence means easy to be manipulated, unworldly, uncultured, and zero strength. Actually, I'm pretty much a decent guy but I haven't yet had a girl tell me it though (though guys do). I wouldn't worry about it unless you hear it AGAIN. ------------------ Pook Anti-Dump, Big Don, ATNA, Adonis, Allen Thompson, and others- thanks a million. IP: 158.135.6.38 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 03-10-2002 05:41 AM
Pook, I had got this line twice. The first time I got this one was a very long time ago,say 3 years back. During that time, I was still new to these stuffs and perhaps a girl might think I am a pathetic budding Don Juan trying to get a piece of her. Perhaps I am a bit sensitive and mis-match her statement but I feel that she could sense all my moves such as what I am going to do next. THAT'S BAD!!! And the second time I got this line is this year!. During the past three years, there are lots of improvements by leaps and bounds. And I am totally surprised to hear such a line after being a DJ for so long. Perhaps I shouldn't be decent and start to act a bit like a jerk so I will get respect from them. LOL! Besides that silly line "You're decent!", I once have a friend that I went out together and he showed me his friend.(His Friend is female). My friend jokingly tease me and say "Hey, this is the person I've been talking about. Perhaps sometimes you both should be dating together .LOL" and I say "Fine, you're a good joker". She then respond "Watch it, don't say silly jokes which might probably scare your friend off" Oh my god, I just don't understand why would that scare me off. I am not an AFC, so I won't be afraid of whether what he says . What is bothering me now is the perception of others on me.? I am always bothered by what others think and if someone make a critical comment, I will feel uneasy. Maybe, I am too self-conscious but I can't be wrong in such a case. Pook,which one would you recommend me to be now, sarcastic jerk or dangerous jerk? Maybe after changing into a jerk, I won't get such a line anymore. 
IP: 161.142.4.9 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 03-12-2002 01:40 AM
You remember what was said about you THREE YEARS AGO? Hell, I don't even remember what was said about me last week!The REASON why you are bothered by what others are saying is that they clash with your own mental self-image. It sounds to me (anyone else see the same?) that your friend might have been trying to set you two up. And you wanted it to be a joke! Why!? If you were with a girl (who was a friend) and she had one of her friends and said, "Maybe you two should be going out! LOL!" and the other girl replied with, "Hah, you are a good joker!" what would be going through your mind? You seem to be putting off an aura of discomfort when you're around women. They'll take this discomfort to be 'innocent/scared' etc. Rushing to be a 'jerk' is like hanging on to a life raft when you should be trying to swim. Do whatever it takes to be more comfortable with women. Use Layguide scripts. Pretend you are Anti-Dump. ANYTHING. (There is no substitute for experience) You are probably much more DJ then you give yourself credit for. There's a line I love from the Matrix which applies best of all to DJing, "There's a difference between KNOWING the path and WALKING the path." All the information from this site and forum has your path all lit up. You know where the edges are, where the solid ground is; the fog of women is lifted. All you have to do now is just place one foot after another and don't look back. In other words, you have GREEN LIGHT! GO! GO! GO! ------------------ Pook As you think, you shall become. The greatest risk you can take in life is not to risk at all. What you do today echos a lifetime. IP: 158.135.8.63 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 03-12-2002 11:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by Pook: What! The Pook is gone!? Oh, what will I do!Nah, I'm still here, dropping in once a month or so. BTW, the post was written over a year ago. Yeah, I've been here too long. It's time for me to go for good soon.
Oh my God. I can see newbies cutting their wrists.
IP: 213.51.187.176 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 03-24-2002 02:27 AM
I would like this one to stay up for good.------------------ Whatsupwiddat - Master Don Juan AIM: HangTen3000 "We who are truly brave will never live in fear" ~The Rock " Just Bring It!" IP: 66.81.155.135 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 04-11-2002 10:36 PM
THIS stays for good.------------------ Whatsupwiddat - Master Don Juan AIM: HangTen3000 Whatever you are, be a good one IP: 66.81.153.103 |
Don Juan
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posted 05-30-2002 12:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by BigBadJon: What does this one mean? "Well, I really don't get out often, since I'm a single mom."
Dude, that's an invitation, a green light. If you don't have a problem with her being a single mom, handle it however you will. IP: 152.163.207.76 | |