posted 11-04-2001 12:07 AM
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Originally posted by improvingdonjuan:
hey hey hey hey, wait a minute time out!!!! what is that nonses about making girls feel the way they want to feel, you should always and i mean always be [b]IN CONTROL DO NOT AND I MEAN DO NOT ever EVER let the girl be in control of the situation. if you are in an argument with her and she is insulting you just walk away thats it!!! she want to feel in control and demanding and all of that, she wants to feel powerful and offending DO NOT LET HER never accept such disrespect from noone be it man or women
its all about you if she wants to feel this way today and that way tomorrow and you always work hard to make her feel the way she wants to feel. lets say today she feels b*tchy and feels like insulting you are you going to let her? HELL NO, always be incontrol and if she wants to desrespect you walk away. its all about you and your self respect do not make such an AFC move as to do everything she wants.
remeber you are confident, in control and strong act acordingly and do not let anyone walk over you.
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Uh uh. You are in control. You're in control because she's feeling what you want her to feel, not the random things she'd feel otherwise. And because if you know what you're doing she is *never* going to feel *****y and snotty and whatever, because she's going to be too busy feeling like you're the coolest sexiest guy in the world and why would she want to give you a hard time when she might lose you?
This isn't about supplicating. It's about working out where a chick's hot buttons are - like finding the emotional equivalent of her little **** and then stroking it till she comes all over you.
As opposed to the AFC who's still trying to work out why her pants won't come off.
Of course you don't take any crap from her. This isn't 'Hey, I had a bad day, so I'm going to whine at you for the next two hours and then give you a hard time because that makes me feel good - and no sex tonight.'
This is psychological guerilla fondling of all her most sensitive emotional erogenous zones - the ones that most guys don't even know exist, never mind knowing where they are, or how to deal with them.
As I said - DJ-ing gives you a great set of tools to get your hands on those areas. But if you realise why they work and what they're doing, rather than just learning them because that's what you're told to do, you can do some improvising and improve your game to a whole new level.