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Puzzled

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posted 08-16-2001 08:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Puzzled     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When is it a good time to ask a girl out?

I've been getting the impression that you should ask girl out after you've been good friends with her...

But, Wouldn't she know that you are already attracted to her by talking to her? If so then why wait to ask her out?

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Chris121

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posted 08-17-2001 02:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chris121     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
NO... don't wait until the 2 of you have become good freinds.

You should ask her out when you first meet her. Right away you should let her know that you want more then "freindship" from her, but POSSIBLE a relationship from her if you end up liking her after a few dates.

When you first meet her she is thinking about you, and most likely no other guys during that time. You are the center of her world basically for those few minutes, and that's when you must GO FOR IT. But after you 2 are done talking she will go on with her day, and her attention will shift towards another guy most likely.

So during the time you first meet her you should go for her phone number then. If you wait you might build up the moment you ask in your head mentally, and then maybe you might never ask her because you will become scared.

It's HS buddy... she is around a bunch of guys. I have seen this happen before when a girl "wants" you when you first know her for a few days, and then after those few days your no more then just another guy in her class she might talk to.

So dude in the end get her # right away... I would then wait a few days (2 or 3), but do what you like... then call her and ask her out.


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[This message has been edited by Chris121 (edited 08-17-2001).]

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