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Topic: Make Her Feel Special
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Master Don Juan
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posted 11-03-2000 10:56 PM
The most important thing you can do to make single women feel romantically attracted to you is to make her feel special. Women are a lot less interested in the way you appear to her than in the way to make her feel about herself. It's very important to make single women feel special and unique. In return, she will feel that you are also special and unique. So, how do you make a single woman feel special? You tell her by saying something like this: "There's something very special about you. I noticed you the second I first saw you. You have a very unique face that's so exotic I can't explain it. You're more than just attractive. There's something very unique and original about your look." Just say this to a woman you've just met and watch her reaction. I can guarantee you her face will light up with a smile and she will radiate warmth towards you. So, remember when you're out on the prowl looking for romance,sex, or a relationship, don't forget to tell women that there's something special about them. Make them feel that they are the most important and special person on the earth. If you can do this, you're love and sex life will skyrocket! This article contributed by Don Diebel. If you would like more dating tips on how to meet, attract, and seduce women please visit: http://www.getgirls.com
------------------ "Women. They've got half the money in the world and all the pu$$y." IP: 12.23.142.187 |
Don Juan
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posted 11-20-2000 01:31 PM
I definately agree. All people r attracted to people who make them feel good about themselves. I just treat every1 well so I dont have to think about it------------------ International Millionaire Playboy Dude IP: 152.163.201.56 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 11-20-2000 07:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by terminator911: The most important thing you can do to make single women feel romantically attracted to you is to make her feel special. Women are a lot less interested in the way you appear to her than in the way to make her feel about herself.
That's true. What she feels, is most important to her. quote:
It's very important to make single women feel special and unique. In return, she will feel that you are also special and unique.
True again - when her interest in you is boiling. When it's that high, she'll project what she feels onto you. Bingo. quote:
So, how do you make a single woman feel special? You tell her by saying something like this: "There's something very special about you. I noticed you the second I first saw you. You have a very unique face that's so exotic I can't explain it. You're more than just attractive. There's something very unique and original about your look."Just say this to a woman you've just met and watch her reaction. I can guarantee you her face will light up with a smile and she will radiate warmth towards you.
If you say this to a woman you just met, she'll react that way on the outside, but on the inside she's going to be saying "Damn is he hungry for it or what?!?!? I know just how to handle this "Don Juannabe" guy; he's putty in my hands and he doesn't even know it" = no challenge. You've given her 5 compliments inside of 10 seconds - huge mistake; it makes you look hungry. And reacting to her physically on the first date (all compliments aiming towards looks???) makes you seem superficial/shallow and unable to control yourself. This tells her what is most important to you - looks, and there's no way you can defend this later after saying all that. It's the first date - telling her she's special so soon is a crime - punishment: you'll not get more than a few dates (if you even get to the second one at all..) and you'll be branded as an insecure phoney who relies on flattery to get somewhere with a girl because you have nothing else to offer. Oh, she'll eat up the cute compliments/flattery for about 5 minutes, but after that you'll be history, as well as a topic of laughter in the women's bathroom. By telling her all this on the first date, you are denying her what she responds to most: challenge. She shouldn't be knowing what you think about her on the first date; you take away the element of mystery that works SO well for you when you're not there with her. The rule of thumb is not to reveal anything about how you might feel. You have to make her wonder about what you think/feel or you will not raise her interest in you. This is self-control(not wooing over her looks every 5 minutes), challenge(making her work/wonder what you are about and not throwing yourself at her like every other guy), and confidence(not having to rely on flattery to get somewhere with her, trying to compensate because you have nothing else to offer). She'll respond to that a hell of a lot more than a few flatteries. quote:
So, remember when you're out on the prowl looking for romance,sex, or a relationship, don't forget to tell women that there's something special about them. Make them feel that they are the most important and special person on the earth. If you can do this, you're love and sex life will skyrocket!
It certainly will a hundred-fold when you stop giving everything away at first, and make her work for it! How much more special would she feel, if she had to work to "get you? Much more special than when a guy throws lines at her on the first date, practically saying he adores her looks (which only really works on women with no self-esteem/confidence/etc.) Your words, shrouded in flattery, are whispers; your actions, shrouded in mystery, scream. ------------------ Definition Of Insanity: Doing what you've always done and expecting things to change. IP: 24.4.254.167 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 11-20-2000 10:39 PM
Armand I agree with you, but remember... I didn't write this so I have to post it exactly as it was given to me.------------------ "Women. They've got half the money in the world and all the pu$$y." IP: 12.23.142.115 |
Don Juan
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posted 11-21-2000 01:04 AM
if you agree with Armand, then you're disagreeing with what you originally posted. why did you post it? its not going to help if you post something you dont agree with. if you disagree with some aspects of the article, then why didnt you state that? just admit you made a mistake by posting a bad article and learn from your mistake. only submit a good article next time.IP: 169.237.24.124 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 11-21-2000 04:39 PM
> "There's something very special about you...I can see women's eyes rolling already, since that quote has that standard-pickup-line sound to it. IP: 208.248.162.195 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 11-23-2000 07:37 PM
Lil' Pervert I disagree with some of it... You don't have to use it if you don't like it.I'll be careful next time; I can't keep posting stuff that's not good enough to compete with such great articles as yours.  ------------------ "Women. They've got half the money in the world and all the pu$$y."
[This message has been edited by terminator911 (edited 11-23-2000).] IP: 12.23.142.231 |
Don Juan
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posted 11-24-2000 05:00 AM
"I'll be careful next time; I can't keep posting stuff that's not good enough to compete with such great articles as yours."[b]only [b]Hidden-Danjer and I can chuckle to ourselves...but maybe of few others as well...  so Terminator, I guess the best way to compete with you is to begin writing articles, or better yet, stealing articles about talking about yourself to impress women or giving out your phone number if she doesn't give you hers. i choose not to taint this forum with useless and worthless crap like you choose to do. thats my opinion of articles you post here from getgirls website. ------------------ "Porn is not a sin; it's a sinful pleasure." "Masturbation is the key......pleasure is the door." "If all else fails, declare yourself a born-again virgin." IP: 206.170.6.41 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 11-24-2000 05:24 AM
I agree with Armand and Lil Pervert on this one. That is, if us moderators can take sides. This was a waste of a post terminator, useless because it is based on the theory of placing women on a pedestal. It's never been a good ideal, NEVER!!! Show interest, but also show self control and that you have the ability to walk around with your emotions somewhere besides on your sleeve. Don Diebel from getgirls.com???? There are people in this forum who prove themeselves constantly as giving great advice, I'd listen to one of them before I'd start believing everthing I read everywhere on the internet. Why don't you send a couple of my hall of fame post over thier to getgirls.com?? I'm quite sure they will get a more favorable response in that forum as your pal don diebel got in this forum. Go ahead, look through the Hall of Fame terminator, you find some real wisdom thier.IP: 64.30.211.43 |
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posted 03-09-2001 03:29 AM
MAn,it's true that making someone special will skyrocket your success but unfortunately,the way or technique that was mentioned earlier is not good.How can you tell a woman that "There's something very special about you. I noticed you the second I first saw you. You have a very unique face that's so exotic I can't explain it. You're more than just attractive. There's something very unique and original about your look." This is what I don't agree.I believe that we shouldn't give a woman too many compliments at the beginning.If you wish to give a compliment,make it little.Only once in a while after you've got to know them better. For me,I will do it only maybe on your first date or later. Otherwise,we will look like a desperate guy rather than a challenge. Being a challenge is important but do you know how to be a challenge,terminator911?
---------------------------------- My techniques and skills are learnt through the difficult way.I used TMC(Tin Moon Chan) to succeed with women,and if i can do it,why not you!Trust your inner voice and have faith in yourself and success will shower you like rain!
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posted 03-09-2001 09:06 PM
I thought that if you treated a woman really special... you'll make her feel "MORE" special and that she deserves better, she'll dump you, or won't go out with you at all. At least that's what I experienced. But don't be an a$$hole eather.
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Master Don Juan
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posted 03-09-2001 10:30 PM
doesnt this take away from being a jerk??IP: 152.163.197.49 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 03-09-2001 11:51 PM
I tend to agree with the others also. Making a women feel special is the perfect thing to do, but the method is lacking. What you want to do is make her feel that you think she is special and beutifull, and are satisfied with her. You don't know or care what others think. Don't do this in a lustfull way. IP: 208.61.84.193 |