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tristan22

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posted 10-27-2001 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tristan22     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Listen guys i'm going to share a story with you guys, hopefully you all will benefit from it.

Last year i was just getting in from the bars at college and this chick comes up to me and starts making out with me. Needless to say i spent the night with her. We started to hang out a lot and that's when the mind games started.

Lesson #1 never get sucked in by a chic. I made the mistake b/c i had never before met a chic this upfront. A girl showed me this much attention, she's the one...right.....WRONG!!!!

I was like a little whipped dog. She never called me or stopped by, i was the one doing all the work. I spent the night with her, she gave me a "happy ending" and thats basically the relationship. She was messing with my head the whole time(i did everything she said, i tried to change for her), but once again; this girl showed me attention, she's the one for me right.....WRONG

To make a long story short. I was buying her things, saying lets hang out..etc. and i got burnt. I was way above this girls league. I couldn't even achieve an orgasm when we slept together(this was a clue right). ONce again i was so drawn in by the fact that she initiated this whole relationship, that i was totally out of my mind. Come on it's not everyday a girl shows interest...is it!

IN conclusion, i found out that she was 2-timeing me with the ugliest most filthy guy in the world. A college student who was about 5'9, 150, with homemade tattoos, and a drug habbit(he treated her like complete **** and she worshipped him). I was 100 times better looking then him in all attributes (body, mind, looks, etc) Needless to say i got burnt and guess who she dates this year. I shouldn't care but this bit$h messed with my head so much, i actually became obsessed. DON'T EVER EVER FALL THIS HARD, AND CHANGE YOUR WAYS FOR A CHIC!

My advice to you, don't be an idiot like me. Listen to your heart, mind, and dik. Don't fall for a girl you'd never ever approach in a million years, just b/c she confronts you and falls at your heals. Get to know her and be in control.

I hope you guys learn from my stupid idiotic mistake.

Take care, Tristan

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Nine Breaker

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posted 10-28-2001 04:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine Breaker   Click Here to Email Nine Breaker     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow man, that is quite something. I'm sorry that you had to go through all that. I just hope that others don't have to go through the same thing you did. It's good that you are warning others about things like this. Congrats on that! Good luck in the future.

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The Human Body Is A Fragile Thing, But The Human Soul Can NEVER Be Truly Broken.

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Selfesteemboy

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posted 11-01-2001 12:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selfesteemboy   Click Here to Email Selfesteemboy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ya if a girl is too eagar something is usually screwy, either its very high interest,or she is coming off the rebound of a break up and wants to use you to make herself feel good...or she is just playing games or whatever for kicks

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BigBill

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posted 11-01-2001 03:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BigBill     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for that dude.

Things that that are helpful to hear, and tough to talk about. Just so you know I went through a similar thing myself a few years ago and it took me quite a while to recover from it.

Now that I'm older and wiser I'm getting to the point where I just have fun with it and don't worry too much about whether 'this is the one' or not. I figure when its right, it will work and work well for a long-ass time. thats how I plan to know.

Hang in there, Keep going out and stuff. If this just happened and you need to take some time away from it thats cool, but make sure you keep yourself up, keep working hard at school, working out, and moving forward.

Thats a tough thing to go through, but hey, looks like you learned from it.

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Dr_Feelgood

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posted 11-01-2001 08:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dr_Feelgood     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry to hear about your story. I, too, went through the same thing about a year ago. Thanks for posting it. Hopefully, guys will learn from our mistakes. That's one of the reasons we post here, right?

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