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Master of the Universe

Master Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 12:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Master of the Universe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey guys... the response looks great so far! I'm working hard putting together the lessons, and the first one will be posted this Sunday.

A few folks had some questions or comments, so I'll address them right now...

Don-Wan Kenobi,

"My greatest concern is that I will be graduating from college in four weeks. After that, who knows where I will be or what I will be doing to support myself?"

Actually, I think you'll find that by going through this Boot Camp, you will actually be able to get a lot of benefit in your situation (e.g. if you just finish college and are looking for an appropriate job, you'll find with your newfound confidence and abilities to overcome objections that you will be able to find a more ideal position).

The point of this Boot Camp is not only to get girls, but to gain skills that will serve you in all facets of life.

"Here's a suggestion: to keep things simple, we should probably keep boot camp running through TWO weekend posts. One with instructions for the following week and the other to keep track of our progress. What do y'all think?"

Hmmm.... interesting idea. Only thing though... is that the weekly instructions will only be one message, so it will probably be an overkill to have it's own thread, and more than likely someone will end up posting a message to the instructions post when they meant to do so in the discussion post... probably simpler to keep everything together. The first post for each thread would be the instructions, and all follow-up posts to the thread would be discussion. But we'll see how things go, we could make modifications as needed.

TheRockStar,

"well when the earth shakes and the lightning flashes and the heavens rip from the sky you know what old Jack Burton says....ol' Jack Burton says "what the h*ll""

Buddy... I must admit... I haven't a clue what you just said I think it was good... but I'm not sure

Clooney,

"One BIG mistake in this course is your version of giving them confidence. As everyone knows this is something aquired over time, with possibly the biggest confidence building thing, SELF IMPROVEMENT. Some prospective DJ's may not be confident within themselves yet, and simply asking out girls and hoping after reading a few hours of information will NOT give them confidence ALONE."

I understand what you're saying... and I tend to agree with your viewpoint. However, according to researchers, there are two basic ways for someone to change their lives...

1) Slowly... one step at a time OR
2) By making immediate, dramatic changes to their lifestyle

Since the purpose of this experiment is to get in shape in a shorter period of time, that is the reason we are using the second method.

That is also the reason why this Boot Camp is so demanding. It requires the participants to make dramatic changes to their normal habits... however, this also produces a rush... almost like being on a high...

Yeah, it might be difficult on the egos of some guys if they get rejected. But if that's the case... then these are the people who really need to GO THROUGH and COMPLETE this program, because they need to work on something more important than getting girls, and that's learning to deal with rejection and have more self-esteem.

However, if someone cannot put their egos to the side during this experiment, then this Boot Camp may not be for them...

But then again, I don't even yet know what the final results for this experiment will be yet... it may be a total dud, or super successful... we'll know in eight weeks

Also, one of the reasons why the first few weeks deal with simple things like saying hi to strangers is to build up on small successes, hence also adding to confidence.

And I appreciate your feedback Clooney, thanks!

Master of the Universe

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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"

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Don-Wan Kenobi

Master Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Don-Wan Kenobi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the reply, MotU.

I see what you're saying: We can have a week one post with both instructions and feedback, a week two post with instructions and feedback, and a week three post, etc. This is a much better idea than I had previously suggested.

Some people have mentioned that "boot camp" may be too much of a challenge for the new members. Maybe it will be, but keep in mind what MotU said a while ago... to paraphrase, it is one thing to change the way you think and another thing entirely to change the way that you behave. While this board does a good job of helping its members adopt a DJ mindset, it hasn't to this point done much to ensure that DJs change their behavior patterns. But I've read the Bible one hundred times and no success really means But I've read the Bible one hundred times and then checked my email and watched television instead of leaving the comfort of my room to hone my DJ skills!

Whoever said that Courage and Confidence are acquired knew what they were talking about. The only way that you can develop them is to put the keyboard down and go out into the real world.

MotU, your "boot camp" could not have come at a better time. I WANT this to be a BIG SUCCESS for EVERYONE, including myself.

Hope you've got your stuff ready for Saturday. I know, I do

Don Robert

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Master the Game or Master the Bate

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mistyc

Master Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mistyc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I already tried out the first week's homework assignment for this boot camp

SAid hi to 26 strangers (had some stuff to do besides that, but I was initially expecting only 10 hehhe).

Flirted (the eye-contact then move on to something more interesting method) with a hot chick in the bus. After the 1st eye contact she even starting checking her hair and her makeup right there in the bus!

I also interrupted 2 girls' gossiping just by looking in their eyes, smiling (by the 25th hi my smile was big and genuine) and nodding. They almost giggled.

So that was fun. =D

I think even the newbies will benefit a lot from this. Mind you, I'm not that newbie-ish as I've always looked in people's eyes when I talk to them and all, and I've been reading this website and askment.com for a few months now so I was more than ready to go out in the fold.

But I don't think the 1 assignment per week is too much. Heck, get the newbies to read Pook's posts in the bible and they'll probably outsurpass me, he's so inspirational

[This message has been edited by mistyc (edited 04-18-2002).]

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mistyc

Master Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 01:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mistyc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh and what MotU said about getting a "rush" or a "high" from doing this is SO F@$%@#$% true!

I only hope I'm able to study for tomorrow's exam with all that rush inside me

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TheRockStar

Master Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 02:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TheRockStar     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hahaha yeah definately a good thing!!

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Challenger

Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 02:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Challenger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:

Well guys, here is the program... Who's in?

Well, I am definitely a newbee still but I AM IN and I'LL DO IT!!!!!

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KometaAmarelo

Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 03:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KometaAmarelo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let's do it!

IP: 194.65.14.75

Don Napolitano

Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 03:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Don Napolitano     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, don't forget me

I'm in! I'm also a newbie and the latter weeks sound the harder for me (saying hi to strangers is no big deal) but I wanna go till the end..

This stuff may be one of those life changing events and I don't want to miss it

IP: 194.65.14.75

MysteryMan

Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MysteryMan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
maybe this deserves a separate section on the board... so people can track were they are easier...


its sounds like a brilliant i dea and im sure a year ago this would of really helped me!

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northernpride

Master Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for northernpride     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What is the so-called reading material??

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Don Juan de Greek

Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Don Juan de Greek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting! I'm in.

IP: 62.103.224.240

Double Down

Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 07:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Double Down     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
in

IP: 66.57.11.229

Dr_Feelgood

Master Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dr_Feelgood     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is a great idea MOU. I'm in! It's great a lot of us can do this together. I wanted to do something similar with a friend, but he chickened out. It's good to have the support and encouragement of fellow DJs when you do something like this. You succeed no matter what.

IP: 67.201.225.90

aznbreakerjrey

Master Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aznbreakerjrey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm in!

IP: 165.247.44.154

northernpride

Master Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 07:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for northernpride     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by northernpride:
What is the so-called reading material??

....well?

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Master of the Universe

Master Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Master of the Universe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow... I have to admit that the response to this program has really taken me by surprise. I guess I didn't think that so many others would be interested.

Don-Wan Kenobi,

You hit the nail on the head as to my reasoning for doing this Boot Camp in this intense format. Glad you're on board!

Northernpride,

The reading material will be posted once a week along with the detailed weekly lesson instructions (first one will be posted this Sunday). Most of the material will come from the DJ Bible, but some will come from other sources (available freely on the net)

Guys... this is going to be awesome!

Master of the Universe

P.S. Mistyc, that's the attitude I like Keep it up man!

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"Life's a joke... take it too seriously, and the joke's on you"

[This message has been edited by Master of the Universe (edited 04-18-2002).]

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El MonoLoco

Master Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 08:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for El MonoLoco     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let me at 'um!!!!
They won't know what hit 'um!!!

Count me in.
Who wants to race?

IP: 63.200.182.14

rookie_donjuan

Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 09:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rookie_donjuan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm in.

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Pipo

Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 09:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pipo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well... although being in a LTR, I know I can greatly improve on my mindset, attitude, confidence... whatever you may call it.

So.. get the ball rolling dude

Maybe won't keep up thru those post-week#4 exercises... but hey, it's a starting point for times of necessity

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Jake Steed

Master Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jake Steed     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Awesome idea, Motu. I'm going to try to participate.

"well when the earth shakes and the lightning flashes and the heavens rip from the sky you know what old Jack Burton says....ol' Jack Burton says "what the h*ll"

Rockstar was quoting one of the best movies ever made, and one of my personal favorites. John Carpenter's masterpeice, "Big Trouble in Little China", starring Kurt Russel. Please go rent this movie. It is fvcking awesome.

Yo mistyc, I love your attitude. You will do great things with that attitude.

Jake

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Wolf in sheep's clothing

Master Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 09:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wolf in sheep's clothing     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm bored and I've been reading too much. It's time to tackle some of those excuses I've been making, so what the heck, I'm in just to see how it goes.

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"Step aside everyone! Sensitive love letters are my specialty. 'Dear Baby, Welcome to Dumpsville. Population: you.'" - Homer J. Simpson

IP: 203.102.38.135

huisy

Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 09:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for huisy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a newbie (not a lot of luck with women), but I am prepared to change, and although a lot of that **** scares me, I'm going to bite the bullet and enter...let's hope I can keep the pace!

Nick

IP: 62.6.100.124

Nannu

Don Juan
posted 04-18-2002 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nannu     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am so in.

IP: 128.138.154.133

Madison Kain

Don Juan
posted 04-19-2002 01:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Madison Kain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am definitely in, let's get started.

MK

IP: 64.170.118.104

Struggling

Master Don Juan
posted 04-19-2002 02:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Struggling     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HA!


Funny guys i used to be the same way you guys are right now. Get all pumped up and reved to go. Then boom, reality hits. Not all of this stuf works, actually none of it works.

but ill get into that in another post.


but anyways good luck people...

IP: 205.188.192.187


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