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Mafiosoman14

Don Juan
posted 04-09-2002 10:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mafiosoman14     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey guys,
I am wondering something. I've read the bible, and all, and theres somthing I don't get. I am not a popular kid at all, and I want to be. I wanna be a Popular/Thugsta, you get me so far, right?
Well, I am not poplular. Girls think something else of me. I want to be more noticable you know hat I mean guys? Well does anyone have any suggestions? I want to be popular,I want more girls to notice me I want to stick out in my school, I want to be cool with all the high schoolers. You know DJS I want to stick out.
My friends tried to get me to go to this party were they smoke pot and drink, I know this wouln't be good on my acne, so please any suggestion I need some posts guys thanks all.
Mafiosoman

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Jester

Master Don Juan
posted 04-09-2002 10:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jester     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well i dont think smoking pot or drinking beer does anything to acne..but it will sure do a number on ur brain lol.

uhh right ok im not popular either but i could be easily now that im dj.

alright, its actually pretty easy, u just gotta join all those gay activities so u get to know more people. a sport too. other than that just be cool and funny.

ur mad weird tho lol, u shouldnt care about any of that crap.

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syncmaster

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posted 04-09-2002 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for syncmaster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol - i'm relativley popular. Not so much w/ ppl my age - but w/ a lot of grade 11, 12, 13's... older grades. Which plays to an advantage. Basically, get a trait - something that they can identify you with. A certain personality, humour, something you always wear, style , etc...

Next - join AS MANY CLUBS AS POSSIBLE!!! That's a biggie - the more clubs (cool stuff) you join the more people you know the more popular you are.

Use "referal friends" - make friends w/ someone inside a popular circle and slowly work your way in. Use people in that group who also belong to other popular crowds and just keep expanding like that.
Soon you'll have the whole school knowing you.

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dubstud

Don Juan
posted 04-10-2002 02:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for dubstud     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The best way to become popular is not to think about it. Wanting to be popular is focusing on others,and putting it on them.

Work more on improving yourself. Work on all the small interactions you have with people, and try to make them more positive. Just get in the DJ mindset, and don't try to analyze what the people your talking to are thinking about you. Be cool, and think of yourself as cooler than the people your talking to.

If you have a bad interaction with someone, go through it mentaly and find out what you did wrong. Make a mental note and move on and don't worry bout it.

Just remember: The popular people are the ones who aren't trying to be popular. They seem naturaly cool. The people who are "trying" to be popular are all the little tag alongs and azz-kissers of the true popular people.

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De La Soul

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posted 04-10-2002 06:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for De La Soul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Mafiosoman14:
My friends tried to get me to go to this party were they smoke pot and drink, I know this wouln't be good on my acne

HAHAAHH!! Classic teenage quote of the month!

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~The_Chosen~

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posted 04-10-2002 10:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ~The_Chosen~     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We should a basic guide on "How to be Cool" for all these questions being asked.

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The Matrix

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posted 04-10-2002 03:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Matrix     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The first thing you must learn about becoming popular... the harder you try... the more likely you are to fail. Second... it's all about confidence. In order to become popular, you have to realize that people will like you because you have something to offer them. Without confidence and self-respect... you'll never be popular.

Being thuggish isn't very cool... sorry. It won't make you popular... people will just act like they like you cause they might fear you... but in reality they are plotting your demise behind your back. This isn't Godfather... it's high school. Forget acne... smoking and drinking isn't good for your entire body. Even though marijiuana is from the Earth... it murders brain cells, which can effect you critial thinking skills and short term memory... among other things. Drinking can screw up your liver and kidneys... and although you can live with just one kidney... it isn't exactly a fun experience.

You want to become popular... listen to Sync's advice. Find yourself a little gimmick... something everyone @ school can trace back to you. @ my school I am known for wearing Timberland boots all the time, wearing a Yankees hat with a bandana to match the outfit I'm wearing. It's my trademark. The thing that can get you popular the quickest though is comedy. If you're funny... use it. If you're not learn how to be. Chicks eat this up. Pick a sport or two, and play your heart out! The better you are @ the sport... the more popular you will become. And lastly... network. You know somebody... then get to know the people they know! Then take the people you just met that you friend knows and get to know the people they know... and so forth. Apply the DJ skills and use the tips that everyone has given you, and you should be pretty popular. Good Luck!

P.S.: That "How to be Cool" guide may not b a bad idea Cent.

And as always... The Matrix has you

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Don Scotta

Master Don Juan
posted 04-10-2002 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Don Scotta     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pot does give you acne, alcohol seems to help, lol. I was (and an now semi) a pothead. Everytime I smoke a blunt I get another godd*amn whitehead (and i dont' even have acne anymore) don't worry about acne, the worst acne i ever had was in 11th grade and that was the year in highschool i talked to the most hot b*tches. Oh yeah, and don't be a pothead (hard to kickgame with an empty head), that and you won't remember **** since you're always high.

I wasn't really popular but people liked me. I would just say, try to be funny in class, never let girls get away with being rude to you, apply **** + funny attitude.

Seems to me, best way to meet people is to talk, talk, talk. My friend moved to stay with me senior year, and met a LOT of people for being there for one year, 'cause the motherf*cker never shuts up.

[This message has been edited by Don Scotta (edited 04-10-2002).]

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Centaurion

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posted 04-10-2002 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Centaurion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeah... a "How to be Cool" guide would be good...I would like to write a guide, but because of my exams I don't have time to do it this or next week... Anyone who wants to write that..?

catch me on msn and we'll talk..

Cent

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The Matrix

Master Don Juan
posted 04-10-2002 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for The Matrix     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Centaurion:
yeah... a "How to be Cool" guide would be good...I would like to write a guide, but because of my exams I don't have time to do it this or next week... Anyone who wants to write that..?

catch me on msn and we'll talk..

Cent


I'm down for the task Cent... I'm on Spring Break. Holla @ me.

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FrenchPLay

Don Juan
posted 04-10-2002 07:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FrenchPLay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hah damn son, u got alot to learn... First off u dont have to join clubs to be popular unless ur a prep kid that doesnt go with this "thugsta" image u try to portray... so uhm i suggest that you DONT try to be popular GET acne medication SMOKE weed DRINK beer go up to the main popular kid in ur school who thinks hes hard and whoop his ass. Dont try to be like anyone else for real. Ull end up being one of those fags whose always on the outside of the loop but never in... and i choose not to chill with the "cool" kids at my school. because in my book they just arent cool... but i still get any girl i want from any clique and u can too

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syncmaster

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posted 04-10-2002 11:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for syncmaster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by FrenchPLay:
Hah damn son, u got alot to learn... First off u dont have to join clubs to be popular unless ur a prep kid that doesnt go with this "thugsta" image u try to portray... so uhm i suggest that you DONT try to be popular GET acne medication SMOKE weed DRINK beer go up to the main popular kid in ur school who thinks hes hard and whoop his ass. Dont try to be like anyone else for real. Ull end up being one of those fags whose always on the outside of the loop but never in... and i choose not to chill with the "cool" kids at my school. because in my book they just arent cool... but i still get any girl i want from any clique and u can too

Stop trying to be cool.... other than that - no comment.

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FrenchPLay

Don Juan
posted 04-14-2002 01:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for FrenchPLay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
see i would fight syncmaster thats a perfect example

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Flyguy3663

Don Juan
posted 04-15-2002 09:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Flyguy3663     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mafioso you should stop trying so hard. Not everyone is gonna be "popular". What would be so good about being popular and being a thug? First off if your a thug you're gonna have to fight to earn respect from the other thugs. I think you should just get some hobbies where u can meet people. Do you play sports? Basketball,Football,Lacrosse? That way you can meet kids your age and chill with them and meet more girls. Don't do drugs and drink unless "YOU" want to. You have nothing to prove to anyone except yourself.

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Lilredplaya

Don Juan
posted 04-15-2002 05:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lilredplaya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lemme tell ya one thing, my guess if your a white boy. cuz it aint "thugsta" its "gangsta" i can honestly said ive never heard "thugsta" in my life. and my school is pretty dayum ghetto.


-red

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oakraiderz2

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posted 04-15-2002 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for oakraiderz2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thats tru lil, it appears that he is a italian. Mayb that says it all....

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Bucky

Don Juan
posted 04-15-2002 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bucky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
About beating up the cool people,


Sync, Concider yourself WACKED!

kno what i say?

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Mafiosoman14

Don Juan
posted 04-16-2002 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mafiosoman14     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ok first of all WHACKED means to kill a person wtf?

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