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swigue

Master Don Juan
posted 05-31-2001 04:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for swigue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

1) You feel that she is acting differently.

2) She stops calling you so often

3) She becomes busier all of a sudden

4) She starts spending a lot of time with her girl friends.

5) She stops giving head

6) She argues with you over nothing

7) She doesn't want to sleep over so often

8) She says anything derogatory about you in public (seriously, not just pissing around)

9) She doesn't hug or kiss you after you haven't see one another for a couple days

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Please add to this list if you have another one. I just get tired of people posting the same questions here. Maybe this will help some people to know that chances are if u are worried about your relationship. Its probably already finished. For real.

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CHALENGE GUY

Master Don Juan
posted 05-31-2001 04:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CHALENGE GUY     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
I just get tired of people posting the same questions here.

I agree. I'd like to add this :

10) She already has a bf.

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vodkachic

Don Juan
posted 05-31-2001 05:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vodkachic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK a girls guide... I Soooo knew should've gone out tonight!!!!

1 - Never mind stops giving you head, she doesn't want sex full stop. she may make excuses though... don'ty believe 'em if she wants you.. NO excuses!

2 - She's all of a sudden talking about a guy at work/the gym/skewl/whatever..

3 - SHE doesn't call you... ever

4 - She doesn't care if you say you want Sat night with the boys..

5 - if you live with her she doesn't kiss you goodbye/goodnight

6 - if you live together.. she may cuddles you at night but refuse a sh@g... is a comfort hug... she's going off you! (trust me on this)

7 - She LIKES your friends - i.e she'll spend all evening chatting to them when you go out

8 - If you do go out together, she is 'tired' by 10pm and wants to go home 'to sleep' - and she does....

9 - She stops wearing make up when it's just the two of you...

10 - you no longer know ALL her friends....


Been there done that...! sorry

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Albion

Master Don Juan
posted 06-01-2001 09:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Albion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This reminds me so much of my last girl friend. Not what she did, but what I did.

Weird...

BTW, it's nice to hear a reasonable female voice around here for a change.

-al

IP: 63.219.255.162

ACTION

Master Don Juan
posted 06-01-2001 10:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ACTION     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by vodkachic:
Been there done that...! sorry

Well obviously this is the reason mad guys here pop shyt about females. However, I'm glad to see you're admitting it instead of making excuses. I hope to "see" you around here more often.

What's up with your input to help guys avoid this or deal with it? I think it would help a lot of guys out. Personally, I don't give a fukk because . . . . . . . .

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Neophyte

Master Don Juan
posted 06-01-2001 01:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Neophyte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

swigue,
4) She starts spending a lot of time with her girl friends
6) She argues with you over nothing

vodkachic,
9 - She stops wearing make up when it's just the two of you...

The two of you are so right about these 2 statements. I experienced them for 100%.

Just the facts.

one to add:

11) She tries to hide the fact that her feeling for you are not so strong anymore as it used to be!

Cya,
Neo

IP: 212.239.169.75

Man Of Adventure

Master Don Juan
posted 06-01-2001 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Man Of Adventure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
12. Shes trying to screw with your mind
13.She disrespects you alot for some reason
14.She pulls a bunch of **** and games on you.

Any of these you can just break off the relationship. Basically you would want to anyway.I wish I did before I bailed off that one girl I liked..oh well live and learn. I can find other women to like and I can always come back to her later.

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Us MEN have got to win our battles somehow....
or those feminine guys with tits will take over us...:(

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maranathaman

Master Don Juan
posted 06-01-2001 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maranathaman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by swigue:

1) You feel that she is acting differently.

2) She stops calling you so often

3) She becomes busier all of a sudden

4) She starts spending a lot of time with her girl friends.

5) She stops giving head

6) She argues with you over nothing

7) She doesn't want to sleep over so often

8) She says anything derogatory about you in public (seriously, not just pissing around)

9) She doesn't hug or kiss you after you haven't see one another for a couple days


You see her making-out with another guy!

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"You ARE the weakest link...Goodbye!"

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latiness

Master Don Juan
posted 06-01-2001 03:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for latiness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She or you have the "I dont give a F*ck" attitute.

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Raingem

Master Don Juan
posted 06-27-2001 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Raingem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
edited

[This message has been edited by Raingem (edited 08-26-2001).]

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Don the Legend

Master Don Juan
posted 01-30-2002 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Don the Legend     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*Stops any touching. Hands, hugs, massages.

*Stops talking to yah or you don't have the same rapport as before.

*Kicks you out of her apartment, it's getting too late (yeah, right).

*doesn't return your calls promptly, like before.

*breaks dates.

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Hey Neo,

Your Number 11 hit the spot for me. This one is a big one. Your gut tells you but you ignore it. I know, I've done it.

Take Care,

Legend

IP: 65.69.95.209

Don the Legend

Master Don Juan
posted 02-02-2002 11:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Don the Legend     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Almost forgot this one.

She always invited you to her family functions, and now she tells you she has something going on with her family and doesn't include you.

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trickynick

Master Don Juan
posted 02-02-2002 01:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for trickynick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are tempted to post a thread on the DJ Board, "How do I know if a relationship is over?"

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You either own the game or it owns you!

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dead_romeo

Master Don Juan
posted 03-06-2002 12:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for dead_romeo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If there's ever any doubt, there is no doubt.

ALWAYS trust your instincts.

They always do.

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"Self-importance is our greatest enemy. Think about it-what weakens us is feeling offended by the deeds and misdeeds of our fellow men. Our self-importance requires that we spend most of our lives offended by someone." Carlos Castaneda - The Fire From Within

"Liquor in the front, poker in the back" dead_romeo

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dorian_gray-from.usa

Master Don Juan
posted 03-06-2002 12:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for dorian_gray-from.usa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:

18) Stop telling you what she is doing that day.

Before you get her dear diary:

at 10am I did this,...
at 2:30 I have Lab....
at 5:30pm I will visit my mom to go clothes shopping,...

(i.e. this is what I did when you were not around etc.)

to I have class,... I tired, busy....blah


Take it as bad sign and end the convo!

No need to waste your time and life energy on this flighty bird!

[This message has been edited by dorian_gray-from.usa (edited 03-06-2002).]

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CalmMind

Don Juan
posted 03-06-2002 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CalmMind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Put simply, if she wants you, she wants you, if she still likes you, she'll want sex with you, the same as you want sex with any girls you like.

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the graphics guy

Master Don Juan
posted 03-07-2002 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for the graphics guy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"She stops wearing make up when it's just the two of you..."
LOL!
I got this chyck who is truly a friend, I would never fvck her, she is like a little sister, but every time I come over she INSISTS on putting on makeup,even if we are just gonna sit and watch tv and drink beer! Too funny!

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Bro's rule, grrrls drool!

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glowstix

Master Don Juan
posted 03-08-2002 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for glowstix     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
swigue, you just described my last LTR down to a T... wow

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Glów§†íx

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izm

Don Juan
posted 05-02-2002 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for izm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wish I would have read this along time ago.

but you know what they say
you get knowledge when your ready for it

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drZaius09

Master Don Juan
posted 05-02-2002 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for drZaius09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by dead_romeo:
If there's ever any doubt, there is no doubt.

Ronin. What a great movie, and a great quote too!

IP: 172.150.199.75

Ronin

Don Juan
posted 05-02-2002 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ronin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by drZaius09:
Ronin. What a great movie, and a great quote too!


Damn straight.

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