posted 03-07-2002 12:56 PM
Hi Neo, guys, It seem to me that the Bible covers mostly attitude issues right now, definitely a solid foundation.
Pimpologist's Don Juan guide covers pick up issues very well, but covers little else.
These topics seem well covered already:
Attitude
Challenge
Confidence
Sex tips
Nice guy/jerk
Conversation tips
Books
ONS tips
Pickup tips
Pimpology
Here are common topics which are often addressed but are not found or are difficult to find in a major post:
Types of girls
-shy girls
-“conservative” girls
-do all girls really respond to these techniques?
-single moms
-teen chicks
-college chicks
-20s chicks
-30+ chicks
-virgins
-b!tches, man haters
Interracial:
-asian girls – different? (yes/no) more “conservative”?
-black/french/swiss, etc. differences?
-why don’t white girls like me?
Guys and looks:
-I look much younger than I am!
-tanning
-hair style
-hair color
-skin/acne
-tall guys vs short guys
-posture
-shoes (very important)
-teeth
-clothes
-cologne
Working out:
-water
-diets
-supplements/creatine
-good workouts
-running – good or bad?
Neg-hits:
-why? (knock off pedestal)
-examples
Kino:
-what is it?
-examples
Dancing / Clubs:
-how to dance?
-breakdancing
-bump and grind
Understanding women:
-what do women want?
-why are they all b!tches?
-are all women crazy?
-do they all have boyfriends?
-men think, women feel
-women was sex as much as men – discuss
-women are more emotional than men – discuss
-how often are women asked out?
-neg-hits
-NLP/SS/eliciting values
-listen to her – she will tell you what she likes
-why do women play games?
-are they all drama queens?
-cognitive dissonance
LTRs
-are there any nice girls left?
-do I have to be a challenge forever?
-what kind of man do women actually want to be with?
-what kind of man do girls stay with?
-do all relationships end?
-The One (myths, realities)
-divorce (expensive)
-marriage
-do women get bossy after they get married?
-Love
-romance
-why do they always break up with me after 3 months?
Dating in general:
-I just met The One
-dating multiple girls at once (benefits, etc.)
-keep it light
-social proof
-kino
-having fun
-becoming exclusive
-moving in together
-girls leaving stuff at your place
Problems:
-I’ve never had a girlfriend!
-I’m still a virgin!
-I’m really shy
-There aren’t any girls around where I live.
-Take a break – improve yourself
-what if I’m not pretty enough for her?
-I still live with my parents
-I've had 70 rejections in a row
Friends:
-I’ve known this girl all my life, should I ask her out?
-seduction mode vs. friend mode
-friend to lover, possible?
Where to meet?
-everywhere
-coffee/bookstore
-grocery
-street
-walking dog
-groups/activity clubs (volunteer, etc.)
-seminars (new age, etc.)
-work (pros/cons)
-class (high school/ college/ night class)
-online
-bars/clubs
-shopping mall
-gym
Approach/ Chat/ Close
-how to get her attention
-pick up lines? (hi)
-what to talk about? (name, where from, etc.)
-Close (always ask for number)
-bonus, immediate date (let’s go get some coffee/ walk around)
-does getting a number mean high interest?
-I’ll call you (don’t say this)
-she said she doesn’t give out her number to strangers
-home number vs. cell number vs. work number
-I am a challenge, so I can wait for her to ask me out, right?
-I think she glanced at me, does she like me?
-neg hits
-compliments
-what if she has a boyfriend?
-kiss close?
-how often do you approach women?
The Call – First Date Setup
-when to call?
-how long to talk?
-answering machines? caller id? no anwer?
-what to do? she is “busy” this week
-can her friend/kid/etc. come along?
-pick her up? meet somewhere?
-counteroffers
-call to confirm
First Date – What to do?
-coffee (pro/con)
-dinner (pro/con)
-action date, what are they? (pro/con)
-what if no car? no money?
-other date ideas
-what if she doesn’t like my idea (mexican food/ ice skating/ etc.)?
On date
-what if she’s late?
-what if she cancels just before the date?
-what if she just shows up with (her kid, etc.)
-what if she says I’m walking too fast?
-conversation ratio
-conversation topics
-sex talk?
-kino (how; yes/no?)
-gifts?
-compliments?
On Date – Tough Questions
-How many women have you been with?
-What kind of relationship do you want?
-she said “I love you” now what?
Date close
-how long should the date be?
-suggest another date?
-Who pays?
-kiss on first date?
more random topics:
what turns women on? (good post in anything else right now)
what if she's been with a lot of guys?
she called and said she's sick? is this a good excuse?
you know the relationship is over when ...
kissing tips
age differences - is she too young? too old? for me
what is the point? sex, ltrs, what?
Humor:
make her laugh
Social Proof:
what is it?
does it actually get dates?
girls WANT to be treated like property - and they LOVE Players!
[This message has been edited by Kodak (edited 03-07-2002).]