posted 03-03-2002 01:30 PM
After approaching and breaking the ice, here are a few questions to get you started…Focus the initial stages of rapport on the subject of exercising:
1.What are you working today?
2. What’s your normal routine like?
3. Do you take any of the aerobics classes? Which one(s)?
4. How often do you exercise/workout?
5. …
One of the key points is not hesitating to expand on any of your questions if you want to take the conversation further into that direction. You can always come back to, or lead the conversation into the next thing you want to talk about.
The beauty of these questions is that if handled correctly, they almost always shift the conversation onto the subject of her body and yours, which in turn usually leads to light flirting and sexual talk.
Approaching while they’re on cardio…
If she’s on cardio, don’t be scared to approach. Depending on the set-up of the cardio machines, it’s usually possible just to go right up to them. If they’re on a stair stepper, I like to approach from the front (as opposed to approaching from the side), that way their focus is directly on you.
This helps create an excellent first impression by giving you opportunities for some light kino and solid eye contact. It also allows you to easily leave whenever you want.
Remember that you can also tell her you’re going to finish your workout and that you’ll come back to get her number before you leave (or tell her to give it to you before she leaves). However the best option is just to get her number right then and there. I don’t recommend taking up a vacant cardio machine right next to her (unless that’s part of your routine), and you should be able to figure out why.
Of course this is all done after you’ve gotten at least some eye contact; a smile, wave or some lip flirting guarantees a nice receptive welcome. If you think you will be seeing them regularly, I suggest you read Handling the Phone Situation With Women You Regularly See
-Pimp
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[This message has been edited by Pimpologist (edited 03-03-2002).]