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Author Topic:   EXAMPLES OF COCKY + FUNNY
Pook

Master Don Juan
posted 03-12-2002 02:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pook     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dr. Feelgood, that is EXACTLY how I act. I see myself in that post, hehe.

When you're in a line or doing something boring (like work), why not spice it up with that attitude? Works wonders!

A recent example:

A girl was in a happy mood (for whatever reason). I gave her a Pookish grin and said, "You're happy because I'm here!"

Big smile on her face and she shook her head.

Then I said, "You're happy because you're here at [company name]!"

She laughed but shook her head.

Then I stopped people passing by and said, "Ma'am. See her? She is HAPPY because she is at [company name]!"

And the lady would be, "Oh really!? Why, that's... blah blah"

And I'd get another person and say the same thing! I'd get their reaction.

Then I started getting people to guess why she was happy.

The reaction? She was laughing so hard she was almost on the ground.

I don't think it has anything to do with being cocky and funny but the ability to make any situation fun. For all girls want the FUN guys.

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Pook
As you think, you shall become.
The greatest risk you can take in life is not to risk at all.
What you do today echos a lifetime.

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Dr_Feelgood

Master Don Juan
posted 03-12-2002 10:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dr_Feelgood     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for the great idea, Pook! I like it!

Here's another one I tried tonight. It did involve talking about sex with girls I just met. I know that some would consider this a big mistake. But, I wasn't trying to get a relationship started. I was trying to be bold, get over my last bit of shyness and insecurity around girls. I don't want to be seen as shy, too nice, or non-sexual ever again.

I've been going out every night and working on bringing out more of the jerkiness in my personality that I've been avoiding in the past. I was afraid of the girls getting offended and not liking me. This fit my male logic. However, it doesn't fit female logic. As evidenced by my recent so-called girlfriend dumping me very unceremoniously. She was always attracted to jerks, and complained she wanted a nice guy. NICE GUY DR_FEELGOOD TO THE RESCUE. What a mistake. After 2 months, it was over. But, I digress.

I tried to become the "good guy" that Pook and others talk about, but I couldn't seem to find that middle ground between nice guy and jerk. SO, I decided the best way to find the middle ground, was to go to the other extreme. So, I'm working on becoming a total jerk, so I can find my way to becoming the "good guy", and never the "nice guy" again.

I was standing in the sex and relationships section of a bookstore, when two fairly pretty girls wandered over. They were both checking me out. One of them said to the other, that it was illegal in our state to have sex in a telephone booth.

"uh, oh" I said.
One of them said, "Yeah. Uh, oh." And we all laughed.

Then she said it was also illegal to have sex with porcupines. I said, "at least I don't have to worry about that one." They both laughed. The conversation continued. One of them said something about "this poor guy", referring to me.

I took the opportunity to say, "No, I'm a guy, I like sex, and I don't apologize for it." Getting the perfect Don Juan attitude out, while keeping the joke going.

Then, I proceeded to tease them about their sexual habits with porcupines in telephone booths. This was all spontaneous, and they were cracking up. One of them had a boyfriend, and the other was obviously very interested in me at this point. I didn't close the deal, not because I couldn't, but I simply didn't care to.

My main goal was to get this experience, and confidence, as well as bring out this jerky, but charming side of my personality. And, it works like magic. I urge you guys to work on this.

I hate to beat this post to death, but I've tried to figure out why my ex claimed to have no feelings for me. And, this is my only conclusion. I didn't have this attitude. I did everything else right by this board, but my AFC, nice-guy side kept showing. The only way to keep that from happening, for me; would have been to demonstrate this funny, jerky attitude all the time.

Learn from my mistakes. You really have to work on this stuff. I think it's one of the biggest boosts to developing your own unique DJ personality. It's a vital element that I was missing previously, and it cost me greatly.

IP: 64.12.104.56

glowstix

Master Don Juan
posted 03-13-2002 08:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for glowstix     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sounds too perverted

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" Women, can't live with them and can't live without them." - i would like to shake the guy's hand that thought that one up.. =P

Glów§†íx

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