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ClayD

Don Juan
posted 03-01-2002 05:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ClayD   Click Here to Email ClayD     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey guys, I know that when I am in the gym I really don't want to be messed with. So I've never hit on the girls in the gym for that reason. Now, though, there are a couple of girls that I would like to know. Can anyone shed some light on how to do this and not come on too strong or like an ******* . I do have to see them again in the gym eventually you know. Thanks in advance guys.

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the graphics guy

Master Don Juan
posted 03-01-2002 05:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for the graphics guy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey just be friendly and open, try to catch them when resting (not in the middle of a set) with some non-specific chat about the surroundings or whatever you think may spark their interest. Gotta keep it cool until you see some interest there. Myself, I don't bother, cuz just like you I want to get my workout accomplished. But hey if they are friendly right back, who knows what may happen!

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SIXPAKI GQ

Don Juan
posted 03-02-2002 05:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SIXPAKI GQ   Click Here to Email SIXPAKI GQ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
when ur doing cardio.....

ask her to spot u....

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smack_roscoe

Don Juan
posted 03-03-2002 02:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for smack_roscoe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just don't think women want to be "messed" with at the gym. People are there to work out and get the heck out of there as fast as possible. It's that whole neccessary evil thing. I dont like to work out, but would HATE to be a fat pig. So...
Leave the sweaty women alone.

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Shiftkey

Master Don Juan
posted 03-03-2002 04:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Shiftkey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
IMO anyone who says they won't approach a girl just because you're too busy working out is a lamer AFC. A DJ shouldn't overlook any good oppurtunity to attract or pick up attractive women, and there's usually a lot at a gym.

ClayD, just do the regular stuff. Eye contact, smile, introduce yourself, etc. If she gives good eye contact back and/or smiles she won't mind you approaching her. Just be sure to approach her while she's resting and not in the middle of a set or you'll start out on a bad foot. If you need an ice breaker, ask them how their workout is going. It doesn't have to be incredibly clever. Women judge you mostly on your looks and confidence, so as long as you pass these tests it doesn't matter what you say (to a point - use common sense there).

Good luck.

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BGMan

Master Don Juan
posted 03-03-2002 08:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BGMan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Shiftkey:
IMO anyone who says they won't approach a girl just because you're too busy working out is a lamer AFC. A DJ shouldn't overlook any good oppurtunity to attract or pick up attractive women, and there's usually a lot at a gym.

Kinda funny how many guys here will pick up chicks just about anywhere EXCEPT the gym... I don't see their logic.

BGMan

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Pimpologist

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posted 03-03-2002 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pimpologist   Click Here to Email Pimpologist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
After approaching and breaking the ice, here are a few questions to get you started…

Focus the initial stages of rapport on the subject of exercising:

1.What are you working today?
2. What’s your normal routine like?
3. Do you take any of the aerobics classes? Which one(s)?
4. How often do you exercise/workout?
5. …

One of the key points is not hesitating to expand on any of your questions if you want to take the conversation further into that direction. You can always come back to, or lead the conversation into the next thing you want to talk about.

The beauty of these questions is that if handled correctly, they almost always shift the conversation onto the subject of her body and yours, which in turn usually leads to light flirting and sexual talk.

Approaching while they’re on cardio…

If she’s on cardio, don’t be scared to approach. Depending on the set-up of the cardio machines, it’s usually possible just to go right up to them. If they’re on a stair stepper, I like to approach from the front (as opposed to approaching from the side), that way their focus is directly on you.

This helps create an excellent first impression by giving you opportunities for some light kino and solid eye contact. It also allows you to easily leave whenever you want.

Remember that you can also tell her you’re going to finish your workout and that you’ll come back to get her number before you leave (or tell her to give it to you before she leaves). However the best option is just to get her number right then and there. I don’t recommend taking up a vacant cardio machine right next to her (unless that’s part of your routine), and you should be able to figure out why.

Of course this is all done after you’ve gotten at least some eye contact; a smile, wave or some lip flirting guarantees a nice receptive welcome. If you think you will be seeing them regularly, I suggest you read Handling the Phone Situation With Women You Regularly See

-Pimp

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Net_Devil

Don Juan
posted 03-03-2002 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Net_Devil   Click Here to Email Net_Devil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Steam Room, Sauna or a Jacuzzi are places where they'll be more readily to talk, if you can catch them there.

BUT be careful though they'll be half naked.

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