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rockon

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posted 06-09-2001 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rockon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just wanna share what I've concluded through not only my own experiences but also from this board and Doc Love, who is unquestionably the genius of relationship advice for men.
I think we all grow up in this culture that idealizes "being in love": the sappy valentine's day routine, bringing your girl flowers with the cliched poems ("roses are red, violets are blue..."). So we all TRY to FALL IN LOVE when we meet a girl that we have the tiniest inkling that we like...WE TRY TO FORCE THE NEW RELATIONSHIP INTO A SAPPY ROMANCE STRAIGHT OUT OF THE MOVIES! And all this ends up doing is driving away your girl and breaking your heart, leaving you bitter and depressed.

SOLUTION: We have to realize life isn't a movie: just cause we may like a girl after a first date, or even after three, it DOESN'T mean she's good enough to be serious relationship material. Think of it as an interview to an EXTREMELY prestigious and important position: would you let some applicant who came in and had a good first interview immediately take the reins of a Fortune 500 company? Of course not! So why let your new girl have the prestigous position of "Your Woman" so easily??

1) By realizing this, you will automatically play a challenge and stimulate her interest enough to create a relationship so you can see if you two are right for each other. If you don't, you'll drive her off so quickly that you'll never know if the two of you were to be.

2) You avoid the pathetic cycle of falling hard for a new girl, leading to getting all sappy on her and smothering her, leading to her leaving you without the slightest bit of guilt and you feeling like your world has just ended.

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CHALENGE GUY

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posted 06-29-2001 04:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CHALENGE GUY     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
excellent post

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Neophyte

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posted 06-30-2001 07:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Neophyte     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Very good reading material!
-Neo

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Aztec

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posted 07-01-2001 01:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aztec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Great post!

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quietstorm

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posted 07-02-2001 12:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for quietstorm   Click Here to Email quietstorm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been saying this so many years already and people criticized me...i think that a relationship is much like a business deal in work in so many ways.....

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