Sir_Chancealot
Master Don Juan
Registered: Aug 2001
Location: Indianapolis, Indiana
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First, we start with variety.
Nothing bores a woman to death more than knowing exactly what you are going to do next. In other words, you are predictable in bed. BORING! Women get sexually aroused when they do not know what you are going to do next. This adds mystery, drama, suspense, intrigue, and a whole host of other things that get a woman's juices flowing. Variety includes high/low, soft/hard, wet/dry, fast/slow, rough/gentle, quick/slow, up/down/sideways, light/dark, and fun/serious/passionate/horny. Variety also includes putting all those things together in different ways. Now you see what I mean by variety?
I will not bother to repeat it, but use variety in all of the techniques below. It will not be repeated, and I CANNOT overstate how important using variety is to a woman.
Next, let's discuss Romance.
“But Sir_Chancealot, you said this would be advanced SEXUAL techniques!”. Yes, I did. Properly done, romance IS an advanced sexual technique. DJs should find themselves right at home in the arena. You must do all the things that attracted her to you in the first place. In other words, you should be mysterious, a challenge, passionate, and several other attributes that make a good DJ.
Romance should be subtle. But make no mistake about that. Romance should get her thinking about sex!
A great example of this is an idea suggested by Laura Korn in one of her books. I use a variety of it however. For example, You leave a sexually suggestive note for her in plain sight. This note says something vague, but arousing. (Maybe something like “I will pleasure you immensely, but only if you can find all these notes.) Each note contains wording that makes her think about sex. Each note also has clues about where to find the next note. In other words, a sexual scavenger hunt. You have just given her mystery, a challenge, and suspense, ALL IN A SEXUAL CONTEXT. There should be no need to discuss what this does to a woman. You have to be able to use your imagination, and above all, use VARIETY.
The next area that we will cover is foreplay.
Foreplay, as a useful TERM, is over-rated. Women do not view sex like a man. To a man, sex is all about the orgasm. To a woman, sex is about what happens before, during, and after orgasm. In other words, the entire episode is “sex” to a woman. They want the whole experience. Everything you do before you “insert” is foreplay to a woman. “But Sir_Chancealot- does that include romance, talking, etc.?” Short answer- “yep.”.
Here are some advanced sexual techniques for good foreplay.
One of my favorites is to slide my hand somewhere, and just as she thinks I am going to touch “it” I move my hand away. “It” could refer to any body part, but is most effective when directed at the breasts, butt, or genitals. Oh, the suspense. You'll know you're doing it right when, just as you move your hand to a particular body part, she gasps for air. Do it REALLY right, and she will move that body part towards your hand, mouth, etc. After you have done this a while, “accidently” touch that body part, while reaching for something else. A great example is the nipples. Given a long enough time, when you massage her breasts, her nipples will ACHE to be touched. “Accidently” brush her nipple with your forearm while reaching up to carress her neck, for example. This drives 'em nuts! You can only do it 3 or 4 times during one “bout” before it comes as contrived and not “accidental”.
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