BigBadJon
Master Don Juan
Registered: Sep 2000
Location: FL
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quote: Originally posted by Pook:
Though this motioning over may be a good idea in clubs, I just don't think its good to get women in general.
It is doubtful that this approach would acheive the same results outside of a club/bar setting.
You are correct, Pook. In the real world you're likely to get a WTF?!? stare or an insecure girl. In clubs it's different. This is still showing dominance when you approach this way in a club (most guys would never do this), but being in that environment will allow you the edge to show dominance in a smooth way.
The way this is most effective is when you are letting loose and making it obvious to everyone else around. The more eyes you have checking you out, the better.It also doesn't hurt the situation if she is having a good time herself.
All it takes is brief eye contact and a "come hither" motion. If she had been looking your way beforehand, it's almost a sure thing. If not, grabbing her hand and pulling her in to dance with you may be better.
Poet,
Thats the point. 99.9% of men would never be bold enough to do this even after they have established good eye contact or other body language. I am speaking specifically of clubs, and being out on the dance floor where it is difficult if not even awkward to imediately start a convo, with the crowds and the music so loud. As for rapport, she should at least be looking your way. That's why it is important to be cutting loose when you do this. If you project the image that you are having the best time you've ever had and catch a woman looking your way you're in!!! I'm telling you, with the right attitude this almost always works.
[This message has been edited by BigBadJon (edited 11-15-2000).]
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